Posts Tagged ‘conversations’
Tuesday, February 14th, 2012
We all have fans — folks who just love our work. We all have places we hang around for years because that’s where we started. We’ve met our BFFs (business friends forever) there. As you grow your business though, things change. Question: how do you love your community when you’ve outgrown the group? Do you stay involved or do you leave with fond memories?
Places where I used to market no longer work as I raised my fees over the years. So, when I’m asked to speak or volunteer, I have a different benchmark. If I have the time to give, I do it. But I don’t file my involvement under marketing. Why? Because I don’t want to fool myself into thinking, “Hey, I’m marketing — I’ve got three speeches this month.” Because if I think that, I’ll slack off on marketing to groups who are willing to pay my fees.
When I was young and silly, I used to love ‘em and leave them. Not anymore. Now I stick around and change my mental agenda. Because everyone needs a place like ‘Cheers’ in their life. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!
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Thursday, February 2nd, 2012
This is what happens when I try to be social. Someone I don’t know well asked for a LinkedIn connection. He’s in our community so I said yes. Within 24 hours, I’m getting spam e-mail about an event I couldn’t care less about. Asked him twice to take me off his list. He finally did and apologized. I’m happy with the conclusion.
This situation did leave me with some big questions. Now that I know LinkedIn is handing out my email with every connection, should I limit who I connect with? Do you limit your community to only those you know and, if so, how do you “meet” new people? Where is the balance between meeting new people and being too vulnerable to those who harvest e-mail addresses for affiliate purposes? I bet I’m not the only one grappling with this issue. What do you think?
Tags: conversations, social media, strategy, Vickie Sullivan
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Thursday, December 29th, 2011
Whew! Glad this year is almost over. It’s been a roller coaster ride. Two international trips, a death in the family (and an estate to settle) and a business that’s booming. Hey, I’m not complaining. I’m just a little tired.
Between the volatile economy and personal issues, it’s easy to feel like we’re no a never-ending obstacle course. That nothing will be gained without a hard-won battle. That we have to fight for every customer, every bit of success we get. I hear you. When my to-do list is bigger than the time I have, I feel the same way. What I’ve decided: to make the obstacles smaller.
Yep, I will have stuff to do. But I make the to-do’s bigger than they have to be. How? By being a perfectionist and spending time to make things “just right”. By making the task more complicated than it needs to be. By writing ten words when five would do. By procrastinating to the point that I have to rush to get the task done.
I have an idea for 2012: let’s make things easy. Let’s ask ourselves: what is the easiest way to do this? Not sloppy — I’m not talking about cutting corners. I’m saying that in the spirit of perfection, are we making things harder than they have to be? Are we dwelling too much on the negative instead of spending time just getting it done? Guilty as charged.
But not anymore. This next year will be the “easy year”. The one where I learn how to quit being so hard on myself and others. Who’s with me? Are we ready to create results without creating mayhem? Let’s go!!
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Thursday, December 22nd, 2011
As I start to wind down and get ready for a holiday road trip, I reflect on all the good that has happened in my life. When I was young (and stupid), I would react to good fortune with “Yea! I’m so talented…look what I created!” Now that I’m wiser I know the truth: every bit of good has happened because I was lucky enough to cross paths with someone better than me. Someone who was willing to help. Someone who gave me a kind word when I needed it the most.
What I now believe: we are all angels unaware. We have no idea the impact our words and actions have on others. We can heal a broken heart with kind words. We can turn around a bad day with a good deed. We are all miracle workers, doing our magic. My hope: that my impact matches the intention in my heart.
May you enjoy your holidays being the spirit that uplifts everyone who crosses your path.
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Thursday, December 15th, 2011
…and little incentive to invest it in people or equipment, according to a survey by CFO Magazine. What would loosen the purse strings? A killer acquisition or uptick in demand were the top two answers.
Other key findings:
- A lot of CFOs (43%) recognize the vicious circle: if they spend money, the economy improves but they want to hold off spending money until the economy gets better. But a big majority (71%) don’t feel obligated to invest in the economic recovery. The concern: they have a fiduciary duty to be safe and besides, they don’t want to hire and then lay off if demand doesn’t rise.
- Don’t look for the budgets to ease soon. A related study back in the Fall shows 25% reporting no plans to invest in the next 12 months. The reason: no attractive investments.
Why do you care? The above might explain the initial reaction of the “budget blues” even when prospects contact you. But know this: they have the cash. It’s just a matter of selling the ROI to the people holding the purse strings.
Tags: budgets, coaching, conversations, economy, experts, positioning, strategy, Vickie Sullivan
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Thursday, October 27th, 2011
The best thing I’ve learned in social media is how to have a conversation with people I disagree with. I’m happy to report that I can go to threads and respond without thinking someone is an idiot. (Well, most of the time.)
That said, I have come to believe that in the spirit of promotion, many of us have become too clever for our own good. For those of you doing the below, please know that the rest of us know you are just trying to promote yourself at our expense:
- Asking a provocative question and then pointing to your article: if you can’t give me insights in your post, I’m not clicking to learn more.
- Answer a question by saying, “hire me and find out.” Yes, I have seen several of these. Some even go the extra mile to say, “I’ve checked your website / video / material. It’s pretty bad, but I can still help.” I don’t even bother responding to these posts.
- Use the same answer for every question. One person was passionate about presentation skills. So guess how he answered every question? With generic platitudes about the importance of these skills. Poor man didn’t realize that if he had just given some specific ideas, folks would’ve seen him as a resource.
It’s tempting to justify all the time we spend on these discussions with slick tricks to promote our blogs and offers. My vote: don’t do it. Instead, if we focus on posting specifics with insights, both the participants and the lurkers will reach out.
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Thursday, October 13th, 2011
Many experts think they are competitive because their business is growing. My response: depends on how you get clients.
Especially in the beginning, we build our business with what I call the “here’s my check” situations. We’ve become known in a few companies, and get hired time and time again. In those relationships, we are the sole source provider.
There’s nothing wrong with those gigs; it’s our reward for doing good work. The problem: assuming that because we got those assignments, we are ready to compete for buyers who don’t know us as well. The reality: there’s a big difference between competing against other providers and picking the low hanging fruit.
Going vertical will only grow our business so far. When that’s not enough, we have to position our expertise for a completely different environment, where the sale isn’t a given. Where buyers are overwhelmed with choices. Where we are being compared to criteria we don’t always control. That is competition. And requires a whole different plan of action.
So the next time you want to take your business to the next level, ask yourself this: am I really ready to compete? Or…should I go vertical and get more business from current clients?
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Thursday, September 29th, 2011
With all the brain research out there, I am more fascinated with how mental tricks hold us back. My thinking here: the more I learn about these fallacies, the better I can outsmart my brain. At best, this is a fun mental exercise to improve my life. At worse, yet another delusion.
My favorite source: Dave McRaney’s blog. I love the simplicity of his writing as well as the stories. He makes me wonder: how do I fall into that trap? When’s the last time I did something similar? A great way to look at your behavior with fresh eyes.
What I’ve learned: our intelligence does not inoculate us from self-delusion. We are the biggest obstacle to building the life of our dreams. And that’s good news because we can choose what we think and how we respond.
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Thursday, September 8th, 2011
I used to think folks who stick with a losing strategy were stupid. I am wrong. According to this Fast Company article, it’s delusional stupidity.
My favorite line: ”It isn’t the initial loss that does for him, but the stupid play he makes in an effort to deny that the loss has happened.” This hit me hard. How many times do we keep betting on that web site, that book, or that strategy that we made up out of thin air? Instead of moving past the loss, we compound it by taking on more losses.
I see this in our business all the time. The scenario: we come up with an idea, stumble upon some low-end buyers who like it, and mistake the dimes we get for dollars. By the time we learn that the brand we created won’t translate into higher fees, we justify our idea with “well, so-and-so liked it.” My question: are the folks who like your brand as well as you do…are they your most profitable buyers? And if not, why are you listening to them?
My engineer husband asks the same question every time I come to him with a tech problem: ”Did you reboot?” I think that solution can keep us out of strategic hot water. Instead of throwing good money after a bad idea, I’m going to say, “oops, let’s reboot” and move on from there. How about you?
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Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011
A lot of folks are talking about Gen Y in the workforce. One of my favorite people — T. Scott Gross — drills down on these kids as customers and how their expectations are changing what we sell and how we serve.
The biggest distinction: what was value add before is an expectation now. My favorite findings (and color commentary):
- Thanks to technology, price comparison has gotten to a whole new level. And don’t think that will slow down when they get older. Prediction: watch for your price and proposals to be passed around like popcorn at a movie. Transparency anyone? And it won’t matter how different the projects are. Sigh…
- Hustling is back. Gone are the days that you get tipped even when you ignored the table. These folks expect you to “work it”. They are clear on how they make money (and are clear on how you do, too). Prediction: mess up and get ready to eat your fee. You can tell a story, but be prepared to comp. Free stuff for mistakes is the new normal.
Lots of other goodies in here. Scott is graciously giving his report here.
Tags: branding, consultants, conversations, experts, trends, Vickie Sullivan
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